Cook v. Echols

BROWN, P. J. [1] The respondents, without in any way raising the question that in the absence of a traverse the facts stated in the answer or return must be taken as true, allowed the court to proceed with the trial of the case on the merits, as though the facts stated in the return had been properly, traversed and issue joined thereon. This course operated as a waiver of formal traverse, and the case will be considered here on the merits as presented by the proof. Montgomery v. Hughes, 4 Ala. App. 245, 58 South. 113; Stewart v. Smith, ante, p. 461, 78 South. *607 724, and cases cited; Tyson v. Decatur Land Co., 121 Ala. 414, 26 South. 507. [2,3] The effort of the respondents to adopt the child was abortive, because of a failure to observe the statutory requirement that the declaration of adoption must be acknowledged “before the judge of probate of the county of his (the declarant’s) residence.” Code 1907, § 5202; Prince v. Prince, 188 Ala. 559, 66 South. 27. Moreover, the proceedings authorized by the statute being purely ex parte, it is a question of serious doubt whether such a proceeding would constitute an obstacle in the "way of any court of competent jurisdiction in dealing with the subject of the child’s custody so as to conserve its best interest, if strict compliance with the statute had been shown. Murphree v. Hanson. et al., 197 Ala. 246, 72 South. 437. While the welfare of the child is the primáry consideration, “though not always controlling, in determining whether the custody assailed shall be disturbed” (Harrist v. Harrist, 151 Ala. 659, 43 South. 963), where the controversy is between the parents on one side and third parties not related by ties of blood on the other, as here, the natural ties of affection and sympathy existing between parent and child are a consideration that cannot be ignored in determining what is for the best interest of the child. We take the following from the opinion of the Court of Appeals, speaking by Simpson, J.: “The laws’of nature teach us that the relation of parent and child is sacred, that the welfare of the child is conserved by the cultivation and promotion of that affection which should exist between parent and child, and that as a general proposition no one can watch over the growth and development of the child as a loving father or mother can and will. Consequently it is recognized that, other* things being equal, the parent is not only under the sacred duty of providing and caring for his child, but that, in correlation of that duty, the parent is entitled to the care and custody of his child, unless some good cause is shown why he should not have such care and custody, not merely as a matter of right, but because the law presumes that the best interests of the child are thereby sub-served.” Montgomery v. Hughes, supra. The controversy here is between the father and mother as petitioners, on the one. side, and the appellees, who are not in any way related to the child, on the other. The evidence shows that during the affliction of the mother with a mental derangement to such an extent that she was committed to the insane hospital for treatment, the father, not being able to properly care for the child, which was then a baby only 6 months old, committed it to the custody of appellees, who retained its custody without question until a short time before the petition in this case was filed, and have cared for it as their own covering a period of about 12 months — a neighborly charity and sympathy that is commendable, A short time before the petition was filed, the mother, having fully recovered, returned to her family, and demanded the custody of her child, and the evidence shows that the petitioners, accompanied the demand with an offer to pay the respondents for their trouble and expense in caring for the child during the time it had been in their custody, but they refused to accept this offer or to restore the child to petitioners,, and this proceeding is the result. The only material difference in the condition in life of the parties, as shown by the evidence, is that the respondents have been more fortunate in accumulating, and own their own home, while the petitioners lived in a one-room cabin situated on the Hartselle Pike, in which they have two beds and other belongings such as are essential to their condition in life, the family consisting of the petitioners, one little girl, and the child in question. The evidence shows that the petitioners sustain a good character, that the father is a good worker, and has in the past supported his family suitable to their station in life. [4] While it is shown that the father of 'the child voluntarily placed the infant in the custody of the respondents, it is also shown that because of the affliction of his wife, and his situation after she was committed to the asylum, there was little else he could do, and that in so doing he acted for the best interest of the child. There is some conflict in the evidence as to whether this surrender of the child’s custody by the father was intended to be permanent, but whether it was or not the law will not permit him to thus avoid the duty resting upon him to provide for its well-being. Montgomery v. Hughes, supra. [5] No case has been called to our attention, and after diligent search we have not been able to find one, where the parents were denied the custody and care of their child on the sole ground that they were poor and were compelled to earn their bread by the sweat of their brow, or because some other person was more fortunately situated and better able to supply the necessities and comforts of life to such child. Tlie history of this country is rich with traditions of humble homes that have produced men and women who have lived to honor their country and bless the generation in which they have lived; and, after careful consideration of the evidence in this case, we do not think that the difference in the situation of the parties shown by the evidence justified the trial court in denying the prayer of the petition, and the judgment appealed from will be reversed, and one here rendered awarding the custody of the child to the petitioners. Keversed and rendered.