Owens v. . Munden

Allen, J. The Revisal, sec. 2088, provides that where either party to a proposed marriage is under 18 years of age and resides with the father, or mother, or uncle, or aunt, or brother, or elder sister, . . . the .register of deeds shall not issue a license for such marriage until the consent in writing of the relation with whom such infant resides, or, if he or she resides at a school, of the person by whom the minor was placed at school, “and under whose custody or control he or she is,” shall be *267 delivered to him, and the written consent shall be filed and preserved by the register; and it was held in Littleton v. Haar, 158 N. C., 566, that the consent of the persons named in the statute, and in the order named, should be obtained, the effect of the decision being that if the child is living with father and mother, the written consent of the father is necessary, and if with the mother, the father being dead, that her consent is sufficient. If so, the only question presented by the appeal is whether the word “father” includes the stepfather within the meaning of the statute, and gives the stepfather the right to dispose of the daughter in marriage to the exclusion of the mother. The two words, “father” and “stepfather,” are in general use and well understood, and the difference in the relationship of the two to the child, and the marked distinction between their duties and liabilities, are well known. If, therefore, we should hold that the stepfather has a prior right to the mother, we would have to insert in the statute a word not used by the General Assembly and having a meaning different from any word in the statute. A stepfather is defined to be “The husband of one’s mother who is not one’s father” (31 Cyc., 1275, 26 A. and E. Enc. L., 784, Rapalje and Lawrence L. Dictionary), and this was approved in Thornberry v. Am. Straw Co., 141 Ind., 443, where the Court, after quoting the definition, says, in construing a statute giving a right of action to the father if living, and if not, to the mother: “The word ‘father,’ therefore, does not mean stepfather, nor does the word ‘child’ mean stepchild, even when the same is used in wills, where the rules of construction are not so strict as those governing the statute in controversy.” In Hennesy v. Brewing Co., 145 Mo., 105, the same question was decided, the Court denying the right of action in the stepfather for the wrongful death of his stepson under a statute conferring the right of action on the father and mother. ~We are therefore of opinion that the word “father” used in the statute does not include stepfather, and that the written consent of the mother, the father being dead, authorized the issuing of the license. No error.