Jamison v. Gilbert Et Ux.

HATES, . C. J. (after' stating the facts as above.) The first question presented by this proceéding is whether the order sought to be .reversed is a-n appealable order. It has been decided several times in this jurisdiction that fro-m an order in a habeas corpus proceeding, brought by a party imprisoned or restrained o-f his liberty, no- appeal lies to this court. Wisener v. Burrell, 28 Okla. 546, 118 Pac. 999, 34 L. R. A. (N. S.) 755, Ann. Cas. 1912D, 356; Williams v. Sale et al., 33 Okla. 659, 126 Pac. 800; Ex parte Johnson, 1 Okla. Cr. 414, 98 Pac. 461. In adopting the rule -announced in the foregoing, cases, the court recognized the sharp conflict among the authorities upon the question, but adopted the rule that in a proceeding for habeas corpus, brought-by -a- person to release him from restraint, where he is héld under .some purported -criminal, charge, the -order of the court releasing -or remanding the prisoner is not -such an order as to- -constitute .a -final order-from which an appeal may be -taken under statutes similar to the one in this jurisdiction, granting appeals from th.efinal older or judgment in a cause. The rule adopted by .this, *754 court in those cases is based upon the .reason that in such proceedings for habeas corpus, a decision therein is not res adjudicaba; but an examination of the • authorities convinces us that the weight of authority holds that there is a distinction between a habeas corpus proceeding brought to secure the release of a person from restraint and a similar proceeding -instituted to determine the right to the custody of children. In the former class of cases, a decision on one writ is not a bar to -the issuance of and proceedings upon a second writ; but an order in a proceeding to determine the right to the custody of a child, where the facts in the proceeding are the same as the first, is res adjudicata. The rule has been stated by one court as follows: “In a proceeding for habeas corpus, where controversy arises over the custody of a child, the real issue is one between private parties, contesting the question of _ private rights, in which there arises no question of a personal liberty, and in consequence all matters in issue arising upon the same state of facts determined in a prior proceeding, should be regarded as settled and concluded. However, where many facts appear to be presented by the record which may not have been presented to the judge at the former hearing, and where possibly other facts have occurred since the former hearing, this court will examine the entire matter.” {In re Hamilton, 66 Kan. 754, 71 Pac. 817; Blakley v. Barclay, 75 Kan. 462, 89 Pac. 906, 10 L. R. A. [N. S.] 230.) It follows as a result of such a rule that since the judgment rendered upon the facts existing at the time of the trial is binding and conclusive and bars a subsequent proceeding by the parties thereto upon the same facts, the order made thereon is a final order, so far as the facts existing at the time of the institution of the case and trial are involved; and such an order is final, within the meaning of the statutes, for the purpose of review. Bleakley v. Smart, 74 Kan. 476, 87 Pac. 76, 11 Ann. Cas. 125; Cormack v. Marshall, 211 Ill. 519, 71 N. E. 1077, 67 L. R. A. 787, 1 Ann. Cas. 256; Hall v. Whipple (Tex. Civ. App.) 145 S. W. 308. *755 The grounds upon which a reversal of the judgment of the trial court is urged are that the judgment is not supported by the evidence and is contrary to the law. If the trial court meant by finding that plaintiff in error had given his child to the defendants in error to find thereby that he contracted with them to surrender or transfer the custody or control of his child to -them permanently, we think .there is merit in the contention that the finding of the trial court is not supported by the evidence. There is by no means harmony among the authorities as to whether such a contract is valid. Many of the courts declare such contract void as being agáinst public policy. That question is not presented here. In those jurisdictions where such contracts are sustained, the rule is that a parent will not be held to have surrendered the custody and control of his child permanently to a stranger, .unless it clearly appears that such was his intention; and it will be presumed that the surrender of the custody of the child by his parent is intended to be temporary, unless the contrary clearly appears. 29 Cyc. 1593. It is not sufficient that the person having temporary custody of the child understood that the parent had granted to him permanent custody; but it must be clear that there was a corresponding understanding on the part of the parent. Miller v. Miller, 123 Iowa, 165, 98 N. W. 631. The evidence in this ease establishes that _ plaintiff in error’s first wife died' when the child in controversy was about eight months old; that he also had another child by his deceased wife, about three years old. After the death of the mother of said children, they were kept -by the mother of plaintiff in error in Texas, and cared for for a period of about one year, after which time the plaintiff in error’s mother became so weak that she was unable to care for the children, and they were returned to plaintiff in error. Upon the advice of plaintiff in error’s mother, and with the consent of defendants in error, the younger child was left with defendants in error to care for. At the time he was turned over to them *756 by plaintiff in error, he stated that he could not care for it, and asked them to raise the child. Plaintiff in error lived 30 or 40 -miles from the residence of defendants in error. He visited the child while it was with its grandparents once, or twice a year, and during the time it was with them contributed about $12 toward its support. The remainder of the expenses of its support was paid for by the grandparents. Some few months after the second marriage of plaintiff in error, he went after the child and took it to his home, where it was kept for a time, and thereupon was permitted to visit, its grandparents, the defendants in error. When plaintiff in error went to get the child at the end of this visit, the grandparents refused to- permit him to' take it and ordered him out of the house. He thereafter secretly obtained possession of the child and carried it to his home, where -it remained for some time. He -again consented to its visiting its grandparents, upon thg. assurance that the child would be. permitted to return to its home, and the child was so permitted to return, where, after a time, it was again permitted to visit the grandparents, who have since said time refused to surrender it to plaintiff in error. The foregoing constitutes in substance all- the evidence relative to any contract on the part of the father surrendering the permanent custody and control of the child; and, in our opinion, it falls short of establishing clearly any agreement on his part that the grandparents should have the- permanent custody of it. The trial court seems to have been controlled in'his judgment principally by -the impression that the child should be awarded to the party who was most able to- provide for and care for it. A general rule of law, -often stated in the cases, is that the welfare of the child is the paramount’ consideration- in determining who. shall have its possession; but this broad statement usually occurs -in cases where the controversy is between the mother and the father, . -and frequently - in cases where the right of the parents against each ■other have been by statute made equal, and the custody of *757 'the children is to be determined according to the exigencies of 'the particular case, without regard to the 'superior right of' either parent. The rule of law, we think, applicable to this case is stated in 29' Oye. 1590 in the following language: “A parent who is of good character and á proper person to have the custody of the child, and reasonably able‘to provide for it, is entitled to the 'custody as against other: persons, although such others are much attached to the chil-dp and the child is attached to them, and prefers to .remain with them, and they are in all respects suitable to .have the custody of the child and able to support and care for it, and even though they are of larger fortune or able to provide' for' the ■'child more comfortably than the parent, or to care for it better, or to give it a better education than the parent can afford.” . . In the case of Norval v. Zinsmaster, 57 Neb. 158, 77 N. W. 373, 73 Am. St. Rep. 500; pit was said: , “We are aware, that. this court has several.. times asserted that in such controversies as the present the order should be made with sole reference to the best interests, of the child. But this has been broad language^ applied to special' cases. The court has never' deprived a parent of the. custody of a child merely becaiise of financial or other grounds a stranger might better provide. .The statute declares and nature demands that the right shall be in the parent, unless the parent be affirmatively unfit. The' statute does not make the judges the guardians of all the children in the state, with power 'to take them from their parents, so long as the latter discharge their duties to the best of their ability,' and give them to strangers because such strangers may be better able to provide what is already well provided. If that were the law, it would be soon changed, by revolution, if necessary.” In another ease from the same court it was held that ,the unfitness which deprived a parent of the right to the custody of -the children must be positive and not comparative; and the mere fact that the children 'would be better nutured or cared .for by a stranger is not sufficient to deprive the parent of his right to their custody. Clarke v. Lyon et al., 82 Neb. 625, 119 N. W. 472, 20 L. R. A. (N. S.) 171. *758 ■ However poor and unable a father may be, -if of good moral character and' able to support the child in his own style of life, he cannot be deprived, of that privilege by any stranger,' however brilliant the advantage he may offer. Verser v. Ford, 37 Ark. 27; Hernandez et al. v. Thomas, 50 Fla. 522, 39 South. 641, 2 L. R. A. (N. S.) 203, 111 Am. St. Rep. 137, 7 Ann. Cas. 446; State of Louisiana ex rel. Delia Kearney v. Mrs. Andres Steele, 121 La. 215, 46 South. 215, 16 L. R. A. (N. S.) 1004. A great number of witnesses, including plaintiff in error’s near neighbors, ministers -and _ bankers, testified, on behalf of the father in this case, that he was a man of good moral character, a law-abiding citizen and highly respected by his neighbors. He is a farmer, and owns a farm of 80 acres, with a substantial residence thereon. He owns several teams of work horses, a few head of cattle, and hogs, has a small sum of money, and owes no- debts. He has always taken care of .his obligations promptly, and has always provided as well for his family as men of his circumstances are able to do. The evidence establishes that -the other child of '' the first wife, who now lives with the father, is sent to school, and also to Sunday school, as much as it is convenient for him to go, living as he does some distance from the schoolhouse. Relative to the stepmother,' the evidence establishes that she is an intelligent woman, of good character, respected by all her neighbors; that she is kind and considerate of her • own children and of the children of plaintiff in error by his first wife; that she is impartial in her treatment of them; that she is willing to assist her husband in caring for and rearing said children. While there is no evidence reflecting upon the good character of defendants in error, all the' evidence "establishes that they have less financial means than plaintiff in error. They own no home and -are tenants. They own but little personal property, consisting possibly of a team. The evidence also establishes- that the grandfather has in the past had difficulty in meeting the obligations of his *759 own family; that during- the recent years he has been sick a great part-of .the time, and .is. unable to .labor -and.-is dependent to a certain -extent upon a grown son and another son almost grown for assistance to support his family. An effort was made by defendants in error to establish that plaintiff in error is a • dissipated man and possesses other immoral habits; but all the evidence in this respect is that sometimes plaintiff in error takes a drink of intoxicating liquors, which, according to his own testimony, occurs about' Christmas time. All the testimony is to the effect that he never drinks to excess; and all his neighbors testified that he is an industrious man and good to- his family. The 'evidence also establishes that he sometimes swears, and that he has in a few instances sworn in the presence of his family, and that he has played cards at his own home, but that he never gambles. The trial court does not find that the father is unfit to have the custody and- care of his child, and upon the1 evidence before us, such a finding could not be sustained. The presumption is that the father is a suitable person to have the custody, care, and rearing of his child. Courts are reluctant to decree the separation of parent and child, and will do so only when the proof of a parent’s unfitness is clear and convincing. In Ex parte Davidge, 72 S. C. 16, 51 S. E. 269, it was said: “To separate a child from its parent is, therefore, in a very strong measure, justified only by convincing proof of the parent’s unfitness. No inflexible rule can be laid down by which unfitness may be determined. Each case must be decided on its own peculiar facts; hut manifestly it is not sufficient to prove the poverty of the parent, and that financial benefit will come to the child -from separation, or that the parent has faults of disposition and behavior somewhat unusual and trying. The condition in life, or the character and habits of the parent must be shown to be such that provision for the child’s ordinary comfort and contentment, or for its intellectual and moral development, cannot be reasonably expected at his hands.” *760 The few alleged faults of plaintiff in error, stated above and relied upon by defendants in error as establishing the unfitness of plaintiff in "Arror, in our opinion, show no' such deterioration of moral force and character as to render him an unsuitable person to have the custody of his child. Public opinion would be very largely divided upon whether taking a drink as seldom as the evidence establishes the father does in this ease, or playing cards for amusement only, constitute any immorality whatever; and while the swearing by a parent in the presence of his family, even in moments of excitmént or of anger, is a fault that cannot' be commended by any one, that fault alone' cannot be said, when accompanied by the many other virtues it is shown this father possesses, to so deprave his character' as' to render him an immoral man and an unsafe person to care for his child. The law does not require the parent to be perfect. ' Of the standard which' the law fixes for the pare'nt, it is said in Lovell et ux. v. House of the Good Shepherd, 9 Wash. 419, 31 Pac. 660, 43 Am. St. Rep. 839: “There is such a diversity of religions and social opinion, and' of "social standing'and .of intellectual development and of moral- responsibility, in-society at large that courts must exercise great charity ;and. forbearance for the opinions, methods and practices of all different classes of society; and a case should be made out which is sufficiently extravagant and singular' and wrong to: meet the condemnation of -all 'decent and law-abiding people, without regard to religious belief: -or ■social standing, -before a parent should be deprived; of the ¡custody .of- a child.” ' -. - • ■ - In re Grocheron’s Estate, 16 Idaho, 441, 101 Pac. 141, 33 L. R. A. (N 13.) 868,, it was held 'that the mere fact that a father sometimes 1 drank and at times became a little'hilarious Was not sufficient to render him unsuitable, to act, as guardian for, his two minor children.;; Nor is pro of ■ that .a father for 'a -considerable period owed: meat and1 ¡grocery bills and for medical attendance and bufial' expe'nsés Of his -deceased wife ¡sufficient to deprive him. of the rigjit ' 'conferred by statute *761 to be appointed guardian of his children. Re Galleher, 2 Cal. App, 364, 84 Pac. 352. If the right of the father' in' this case to the custody' of his child was made ‘to!! turn solely Upon' in whose hands 'the child will receive the best' care and- treatment, and upon where- its welfare will be best promoted, the correctness of the decision of the learned trial court' is very questionable. Both ' the child in controversy, who at the time was about six years’ of age, and his brother, who' 'at- the time was about - nine yéars of age and who lives with his father, testified aVthé -trial. The child in controversy testified that he preferred’ to' live -with his grandparents; that he did not want to live with his father; that he was a mean’ man, and that -he did not love him: His brother testified-’that he : was living with his father, his stepmother, and his little sister;- that he preferred to live with his 'fáther; 'that his father' was good to him, although-he punished him when he did not obey. When asked relative-to his grandparents, he said that he liked to visit his grandparents, and he loved them, but he preferred to live with his fathér.' Courts sometimes heed' the expressed wish of an infant as to its custody; but the worthlessness of such an expression by a child of six' years of age is clearly shown by this'case. His aversion to his father is clearly the outgrowth of this contest between his father and his ’grandparents; and the enmity now in his heart against his natural parent has been instilled there for the purpose of affecting this case,- rather' than ‘düé to any judgmimt óf' the child -as to the virtues "of his' father! No other explanation can be made of his feelings and statement1; in view of the great number of neighbors of the father- who testified as "to his good character and of his kind treatment of his family. The grandparents are past middle life; and-'in'-the course of nature in all probability will die before this ‘“¡child is'old enough to sustain himself; and in all. probability, if'left with his' grandparents, ’ in early youth he would find • himSeli robbed of their care and attention by death; and at a time when the good counsel and restraint of parents are most *762 essential in his life, he would be ■ without the love of a • mother and without the counsel and restraint of a considerate father. There 'would be nothing, then, between him and complete orphanage, except a father from whom by that time he would' be irrevocably estranged, and against whom his heart would be deeply embittered. Under such circumstances, it is of great importance to protect, as far as possible, the welfare and happiness of this child of tender years from the effect of loss ’ of respect and affection for his father. We can sympathize with the grandparents in their distress at the prospects of -being separated from a child to whom they have become deeply attached because of natural ties and association, but sympathy cannot be permitted to enter into the determination of the rights of this father, whom the voice of nature makes the natural - guardian of his child, or into the consideration of the permanent welfare of this child, who for many years yet must have a protector and a provider. These families,- so far as 'this record appears, until this controversy arose, lived in peaceful relation to each other, and each entertained the highest respect and regard for the other. It is only since this contest arose that' things derogatory to the good character of each have been sought and have been expressed.' The aid defendants in error have -rendered the father in caring for this child at a time when his circumstances wei*e such that he was unable to give it personal attention is highly commendable, and may seem to them to merit their further custody and control of the child; but in calmer moments, when they have fully considered the matter and remember the love and affection for their own children and the pleasure and pride they took in rearing them, and realizing what a loss it would have been to them to have surrendered their own children to others permanently, we think they will then conclude that they should do as they would be done by, and be willing that this father should have given to him that which is his own. *763 The judgment of the trial court is reversed ■ and the cause remanded, with directions to grant the writ and award the custody of the child to plaintiff in error. All the Justices concur.