Holsworth v. Holsworth

Wait, J. The libellee appeals from a decree of the Probate Court which grants, nisi, to the libellant a divorce for cruel and abusive treatment. The judge has found that the [134] libellee was cruel and abusive as charged in the libel. His findings of fact will not be disturbed, as there was evidence which, if believed, would sustain them, and as they are not plainly wrong. Meader v. Meader, ante, 132. Drew v. Drew, 250 Mass. 41. The only question that requires determination is whether by returning and living with her husband as his wife, the .libellant has condoned the offences denounced in her libel. If the libel must be dismissed on this ground, the other objections to the decree are immaterial. The libel bears date September 26; the order of notice was obtained October 2; and service was made October 13, 1923. An order for the custody of a minor child was made on September 26, 1923. The last act of cruel abuse was alleged to have been on August 10, 1923. On that day the libellant left her husband, taking their child, and went to her mother in Connecticut. On August 26,1923, the libellee went to Connecticut, asked his wife to return to him, and, on her refusal, took his child back to Boston. His wife followed him, and lived with him as his wife until September 19, when, having completed her arrangements for divorce proceedings and for securing custody of the child, she again left him. Her return was for the purpose of taking the child from its father, and with no intention of forgiving her husband unless he yielded to her demands. Her conduct, nevertheless, constitutes condonation of the offences charged in the libel. The husband or wife who, knowing of a marital offence committed by the other, continues to five with that other in marital relations, condones the offence and cannot set it up as a ground of divorce, Rogers v. Rogers, 122 Mass. 423, Maglathlin v. Maglathlin, 138 Mass. 299, Brown v. Brown, 208 Mass. 290, LaFlamme v. LaFlamme, 210 Mass. 156, Drew v. Drew, 250 Mass. 41, Keats v. Keats, 1 Sw. & Tr. 334, 346, unless the continued living together is compulsory. Gardner v. Gardner, 2 Gray, 434, 441. Leech v. Leech, 12 Buch. 472. Here there was no compulsion. The vehement desire to possess the child which, in large part, underlay the return to her husband, is very different from the inability to get away from the husband owing to lack [135] of safe opportunity or of pecuniary means which have been held to excuse and explain, as compulsory, a continuance of the marriage relations. The libellant was away from the husband’s home. She could have secured custody of the child if entitled to it, by a speedy proceeding in the courts. For purposes of her own, deliberately pursued, she resumed her position as wife, fully cognizant of every offence which she could charge against her husband. As matter of law, she has cut herself off from maintaining successfully a libel for divorce which alleges only these offences. No conduct of the libellee in the period from August 27 until September 19, defeated the condonation. The judge should have ruled in accord with libellee’s sixth request that the offences alleged had been condoned. The decree is reversed. So ordered.