Kindorf v. Kindorf

ALLEN, J. Plaintiff is the wife of defendant, and this action is one for her separate maintenance under — 638 — the statute. The trial court found the issues for plaintiff, and adjudged that the defendant pay her $25 per month, for the support of plaintiff and a minor child; from which judgment the defendant prosecutes this appeal. The petition averred that, on May 14, 1911, in the city of St. Louis, defendant without cause abandoned plaintiff, and thereafter refused and neglected to maintain and provide for her and two minor children born of the marriage. The answer was a general denial. Plaintiff and defendant were married in 1894, and lived together as husband and wife until May 14, 1911. Two children were born of the marriage, viz., George Kindorf and William Kindorf, aged, respectively, fourteen and fifteen years at the time of the trial below. It appears that defendant is a cigar maker by occupation, and that Saturday evening, May 13, 1911, he returned from his work and asked his younger son, George, to take certain cards and deliver them at a house some fifteen city blocks distant; that the boy wanted to change his clothing, for the reason that he had been playing ball that afternoon, whereby Ms clothes had become soiled, and that he did not want to appear upon the street in such condition. It seems that defendant objected to this and insisted that the boy go on the errand at once. The testimony is conflicting as to just what was said, but this is immaterial here. At any rate the defendant took what is referred to in the testimony as a “eat-o’nine-tails” and began to whip the boy. This occurred in the kitchen of defendant’s home. It seems that the instrument which defendant used to administer this punishment consisted of a piece of leather fastened to the end of a broom handle; and that he proceeded to whip the boy severely with it. The plaintiff testified that while defendant was striking the boy she said to him: “Will, don’t hit Mm, but talk to him,” and that defendant replied: “I am doing this, and if you interfere I will — 639 — hit you both and put you out.” And that defendant did thereupon strike her. Defendant denies that he so struck plaintiff, and testified that plaintiff interfered by catching hold of his arm, saying, “You ain’t going to hit him for anything like that.” The difficulty ended by the boy running from the house and going to his grandmother’s, where he remained until the next morning. Plaintiff testified that defendant was quarrelsome all that evening. On the following morning he sent his son, William, to get George and bring him home; and when the boys reached home and George sat down in the kitchen, defendant at once came up to him and began to beat him with a rope that he had in the meantime specially braided and prepared for that purpose. The evidence is quite convincing that the defendant brutally and unmercifully beat the boy with this instrument; the testimony of witnesses, who saw and examined the hoy shortly thereafter, being to the effect that he was bruised and bleeding about the head, arms, neck, shoulders and body. The testimony is highly conflicting as to what took place between plaintiff and defendant at this time. Plaintiff testified that the defendant also struck her with the rope, pushed her and the boy out the kitchen door, saying: “I will put you both out,” telling them to “go;” and that he offered to pack her clothes and throw them out after her. George testified that, while his father was striking him, his mother came to the door, and the defendant said: “If you want to see me strike him, come on in. I will hit both of you and put you out;” that he did thereupon turn and strike the plaintiff as well as his son, pushed them both out the door and told them to go. Several other witnesses, residing in the immediate neighborhood, testified to hearing the beating of the boy, and to have heard defendant tell plaintiff and his son to go or “get out;” that plaintiff asked to have her clothes, and — 640 — that defendant said that he would help her pack them .-and throw them out after her. Plaintiff thereupon left, with a bundle of her ■clothes, her son George going with her, and went to the home of her parents. Defendant denies that he struck his wife either upon the day of the separation or the evening before; ■denies that he told her to go or get out, or that he pushed her out of the door. He says that plaintiff interfered when he was striking the boy, and that when ■the latter ran out of the kitchen, plaintiff said she was .going to leave and did so. Defendant’s evidence as to what occurred on the Sunday morning in question consisted wholly of his own testimony. A suit for maintenance by the wife is in the nature -of an equitable proceeding. The findings of the lower -court are not binding upon us; but where there is a sharp and irreconcilable conflict in the testimony, such ■as here appears, we should and do defer very largely to the findings of the trial judge, who had the wit-messes before him. It is contended by appellant that the evidence -does mot show that he abandoned the plaintiff. "We •cannot accede to this, however; for the evidence in the record is amply sufficient to warrant the lower -court in finding that the defendant not only struck the plaintiff, but that he drove her forth from his home. Where a husband’s wrongful conduct renders his wife’s condition intolerable, she may leave him and maintain her suit for support and maintenance under the statute. [McGrady v. McGrady, 48 Mo. App. 668; Kurtz v. Kurtz, 119 Mo. App. 53, 96 S. W. 242; Polster v. Polster, 145 Mo. App. 606, 123 S. W. 81.] And where ■a husband wrongfully drives his wife from him, and -turns her out of doors, such conduct must perforce constitute an abandonment of her. But it is said that, in order to recover, under the statute, plaintiff’s evidence must show, not only an — 641 — abandonment by defendant, bnt a refusal or neglect on his part to maintain and provide for her; and it is urged that the evidence does not show that defendant failed or refused to provide for plaintiff, but that he was willing to provide for her in his own home. It is true that there must be both an abandonment and a failure or refusal to provide for the wife. [Polster v. Polster, supra; Youngs v. Youngs, 78 Mo. App. 225.] But the testimony fails to disclose that the defendant made any effort to have his wife return to him; and it is conceded that he has contributed nothing to her support since May 14, 1911. It does not appear that he thereafter requested her to return, nor did he give her any assurances as to his conduct in the future. The only thing appearing in the record pertinent to this question is testimony to the effect that when defendant was requested to provide for plaintiff he said that he would do so only in their own home. ^ Defendant cannot strike his wife, drive her from him and turn her out of doors, without cause, and then, without more, exonerate himself, and relieve himself from his obligation to provide for her, by saying that he will only support her in that home from which he has driven her. There is abundant evidence to support the finding of the trial court. Indeed the testimony is quite convincing that plaintiff was forcibly driven from her home by defendant, merely because she protested against the latter’s cruelty and brutality toward their son. And it does not appear that defendant has sought to make amends or to have plaintiff return to him. But it is said that the allowance to plaintiff for the support of herself and her minor son, in the sum of $25 per month, is excessive. Respecting this, the record shows that the defendant owned the home in which he lived, which he says is worth about $1200, and that he owned a lot of ground which he values — 642 — at $600, encumbered by a deed of trust for $200. He testified that Ms average earnings were about $14 per week. Plaintiff’s testimony was that lie earned from $15 to $18 per week. A careful examination of the reasons advanced by learned counsel for appellant why we should declare the monthly allowance made by the trial court excessive fails to convince us that we would be justified in reducing the amount thereof. The judgment should be affirmed. It is so ordered. Nortoni, J., concurs. Reynolds, P. J., concurs, except as to the amount of the allowance. Considering the income of the defendant he thinks the allowance excessive.