Steele v. Steele

BENNETT, J. This is a suit for divorce brought by Mrs. Steele, tbe plaintiff. Tbe plaintiff 'and defendant bad been once married and divorced, but became reconciled and remarried, — largely on account of their daughter, apparently,- who is now about fourteen years of age. Tbe suit is brought on the ground of cruel and inhuman treatment and personal indignities rendering life burdensome. [632] The plaintiff testified: “He wasn’t kind and he told me repeatedly he didn’t care for me. The words he used, ‘He didn’t give a damn for me,’ and it was only because of our daughter that he lived with me * * When I went after my trunks he “told me he didn’t give a damn for me; that he had ceased to love me. “Q. Now, there is a statement here that sometime in 1918 you asked him for money for treatment by a physician. State to the court what was said at that time. “A. Well, my health was very poor at that time, and I asked him for money to come to town. I was taking treatments, and he wouldn’t give me any, and I made the remark, ‘Donald, if you don’t give me money, how do you expect me to get it?’ And he said, ‘I don’t give a damn how. you get it or where you get it.’ ” Finally the plaintiff went to Salem to take care of the defendant’s mother, who was very old and very sick, and who was living at the home of defendant’s sister in Salem. After being at Salem for the purpose of taking care of his mother, for a week or two, she went back to Turner, where she and her husband lived, to attend the graduating exercises of her daughter. He didn’t want her to return to Salem, and when she explained that there was no one else to help his sister take care of their mother, and that they had arranged to go back, he told her if she went to Salem to stay and never come back to his home again, and he has never- since consented to her returning home. All of this is corroborated by the daughter and by defendant’s sister, who testified — and the defendant himself admits — that he ordered her to stay away if she went to Salem to take care of his mother, and [633] that he has never since been willing for her to come back. And defendant’s own sister testified that at different times she had heard him say in the presence of the plaintiff that “he didn’t care for her, that he had ceased to love her, and that he would never live with her again.” The defendant makes no defense except as to the matter of support for the daughter, but the district attorney appears on behalf of the state and contests the divorce. There is no evidence or claim that plaintiff has ever misconducted herself in any way or been guilty of any kind of unlawful conduct. 1. "We think the evidence is sufficient to sustain the charge of personal indignities. Section 507, L. O. L., provides that the marriage contract may be dissolved for “cruel and inhuman treatment or personal indignities rendering life burdensome.” We do not see how it could be otherwise than to make a woman’s life burdensome, to live with a husband who had ceased to care for her, and who did not want to live with her and was frequently telling her so in such a coarse and brutal way, and that he did not “care a damn for her.” We think no good purpose could be served by compelling a woman to live with a man under such circumstances. 2. It was supposed at one time that actual personal violence, or attempt at personal violence, was necessary to constitute cruel and inhuman treatment or personal indignities; but it is now well settled that that is no longer the law, if it ever was. Section 88, 19 C. J., states the law thus: “It was formerly thought that actual bodily harm, or apprehension thereof, must be shown to authorize [634] granting a divorce on the ground of cruelty, and this doctrine seems still to prevail in a few jurisdictions) but this view_has_ been generally repudiated, and the modern doctrine is that any unwarranted conduct by either spouse which causes the other mental suffering of sufficient degree constitutes such cruelty as will authorize a divorce.” There are no two cases exactly alike, but we think this case is well within the principles announced by this court in Lisenby v. Lisenby, 89 Or. 273 (173 Pac. 888), and Railsback v. Railsback, 92 Or. 623 (182 Pac. 131). We think the plaintiff is entitled to her decree of divorce and for the custody of the daughter. 3. As to the allowance for the support of the daughter there is some difficulty. The parties seem to be working people and are poor. Neither of them have anything except their earnings. The defendant is engaged in the butcher business, apparently in a small way, in Turner, and his only revenue is from that business. His testimony in relation to the matter is undisputed, and he claims his receipts from the business over and above the expenses, are about $50 per month. As we have said, these'people are working people, and the daughter has now reached the age where she can help some in her own support. The defendant, according to his testimony which is also undisputed, has lately been sick and partly paralyzed for a period of three or four months, and he has never entirely recovered his health, and is not able to do hard-work. We think under the circumstances he should contribute $15 a month toward the support of the daughter during her minority if she shall continue to remain dependent upon her mother and to live with her during that time. This is a meager sum, it is true, but under the circumstances it seems all the father will be able to contribute after [635] he takes care of his. own living and necessary personal expenses. The decree will he so framed. Reversed. Decree Rendered.