Gerdes v. Weiser

Bothbock, J. i.-parent and child: matate.Dünce of child, Beports of administrators and guardians are not usually prepared with an expectation that issue is to be taken thereon, and they do not, therefore, set , , , out facts with such clearness and precision as are required in ordinary actions. Counsel in this case have argued the abstract question whether a husband is bound to maintain the infant children of his wife by a former marriage. This, we think, depends largely upon circumstances. A man is not absolutely liable to maintain his own children, in the sense that he may not under certain circumstances have an allowance from his children’s estate as an aid to their maintenance. The authorities are abundant to this effect. In Tyler on Infancy and Coverture, p. 289, it is said: “Generally speaking, the father is bound to maintain his infant child, and no allowance will be made to him for this purpose out of his property. But if the father is not able to maintain his children, the court will order maintenance for them out of their own property, and this does not turn upon the question of the father’s solvency merely,.but whon'over ho is [593] not in sucli circumstances as to be able to give tbe child, an education suited to the fortune which he enjoys or expects.” An allowance will be made when the parent’s estate is limited, while that of the children is abundant. "Wait’s Actions and Defenses, Yol. 5, p. 52, and authorities cited; and see Kent’s Com., Yol. 2, p. 182. This rule commends itself as eminently just, both to parent and child. Suppose the parent is in straitened circumstances, struggling to procure the necessaries of life for his family, and his children have estates of their own, the comfort and welfare of the children, and the dictates of humanity, require that aid should be given to the parent from the estate of the children to enable him to maintain them properly. stop-children. It is said, however, that the defendant was under no obligation to maintain the child of his wife by a former marriage. We have no occasion to determine the question Aether the defendant could have been compelled to take his wife’s child into his family and maintain it as his own. But we believe it as well settled that he is liable when he takes such children into his family, and keeps them as part thereof. "When this relation exists between the parties the c child cannot' recover for services rendered, and the step-father cannot ordinarily recover for the support and maintenance of the child. "When a man stands in loco parentis, he is entitled to the rights and subject to the liabilities of an actual parent, although he may not have been legally compelled to assume that situation. Williams v. Hutchinson, 3 N. Y., 312; Stone v. Carr, 1 Esp., 1; Cooper v. Martin, 1 East., 82; and see Bradford v. Bodfish, 39 Iowa, 681. It appears from the report made by the defendant in this ease that when the plaintiff, was three months old he took him into his family and boarded him, furnished him with his clothing and other necessaries as one of his own children. Under these circumstances the relation between the parties was that of parent and child, with like obligations. Bradford v. Bodfish, supra. [594] 3. —: guardianship: practiee. The report is entirely silent as to the situation-'and circumstances of the defendant. Nothing appears therefrom only that the plaintiff was the owner of the property „ .... , „ , , from which the rents were collected. It does not appear whether the plaintiff’s services after he arrived at an age to be of service were of any value to the defendant. In view of this state of the record there was nothing before the court enabling it to make an intelligent determination of the rights of the parties. We do not think a demurrer was the proper practice under the circumstances, this being a mere report, or account filed by the guardian. There should have been a motion for a more sjiecific statement of the claim made by the defendant, and the case should have been determined upon its own facts, as was done in Bradford v. Bodfish, supra. The defendant claims that there was a contract between himself and his wife that he should be recompensed for plaintiff’s support. We do not think it was competent for the mother to make such a contract which would be binding on her infant son. Although the mother was the natural guardian, she could not thus dispose of her son’s property. We think the ruling upon the demurrer should be reversed, and the cause remanded for further proceedings. We do not understand that the defendant proposes to subject the property of the plaintiff to any demand which he may have in excess of the income from the property; his counsel in argument disclaims. such intention. The rights of the parties should be determined in view of all the circumstances surrounding them. In 2 Kent’s Com., 182, it is said: “ The courts now look with great liberality to the circumstances of each particular case, and to the respective estates of the father and children.” Reversed.