Voullaire v. Voullaire

Bliss, Judge, delivered the opinion of the court. In September; 1867, the plaintiff instituted in the St. Louis Circuit Court a suit against the defendant; her then husband, for divorce,-and in due time obtained a decree dissolving;the marriage relation, and giving, her the custody of her five children. She soon after intermarried with Isaac’M. Ruth; and .in November, 1868, the defendant presents a petition for- a review of so much of the divorce-as gives, to the plaintiff the custody-of the children, and asks to have them restored to him. He alleges various reasons for his request, some of which affect the character of the mother, and all- of which go to her ability and fitness to rear them; • and at the hearing she and her said last husband, who- is •made a- party to the petition for review, appear- and admit of record that they are unable to take charge of: and educate said children, and disclaim all-right to their-care and custody; But notwithstanding this disclaimer, the defendant insisted upon introducing evidence against'- the 'character and fitness 'of the plaintiff, which the court very properly refused to-admit,' and held that the defendant was prima facie-entitled' to the-custody and [605] control of the children, inasmuch as she to whom the court had committed them had given them up. The plaintiff then offered to prove that the defendant, their father, “ was not a proper and competent person to have the custody and care of said children and, against the protest of defendant, the court permitted her to do so. A large amount of testimony upon the subject was offered upon both sides, all of which I have read with care, and I can not see how the court could have come to a wiser conclusion than the one arrived at, and looking to the good of the children, which is the primary object, what better disposition could.have been made of them. The court decided that the father, from his temperament and other reasons, was an unsuitable person to have the care of them; and it.appearing that a sister of defendant was living in good circumstances in Cincinnati, and that Mr. Murray, the step-father of the plaintiff, lived in St. Louis, also in good circumstances, the latter of whom appeared in court and offered to take charge of them, the following order in substance was made: It was ordered that the two. boys, Belmont and Alphonso, be delivered to their father upon condition that within thirty days he places them with his sister in Cincinnati, to be put to school, and that he keep them there until the further order of the court; that George B. Murray be appointed guardian of the three girls, Italia, Elmira, and Enola, with instructions not to influence their religious belief contrary to the faith of their parents; that the access of their mother to them be at the house of their guardian, which, except in sickness, is not tobe oftener than once a month; that the said Seymour Youllaire, within five days, file his acceptance of the conditional custody of his said-boys; otherwise that the said Murray be guardian of them as well. The mother was satisfied with this order, but the father refused to accept the custody of the boys upon its conditions, and filed a motion forja new hearing, which the court refused to hear, but sent it, with all the papers and minutes of testimony, to another judge of the same court, who overruled the same. This change was resisted and excepted to by the petitioner for review. The court, at general term, affirmed the decree, and the case is brought before us. [606] I have expressed an approval of the decree, and, unless there are errors of law in the record, we should feel bound to sustain it. There are no matters so unpleasant, and which involve such grave responsibilities, as the disposition of children upon the violent disruption of families ; and it is that, chiefly, that renders divorces so much to be deprecated. This duty in the case at bar seemed to be performed with as much delicacy and consideration as could be brought to bear upon such a case. Mr. Murray’s family and the sister spoken of in Cincinnati are the only relatives of the children, except the parents, that are shown in the record. The eldest daughter, Italia, being at the trial, a little over a year ago, between ten and eleven years of age, had, lived with her grandparents for five or six years, and expressed in court a strong desire to continue to live with them. Belmont, who is older, was said to be becoming irregular in his habits ; and if anything is to be made of them, they should all be placed at once under kind but firm control. This they would not receive from either parent. One of the strong reasons given by the judge who tried the case, in an excellent opinion filed with the briefs, why the father should not have the absolute custody of the children, was his conduct upon the trial. He there insisted more than once, notwithstanding every legal reason for it was gone, upon his right to introduce evidence to blacken the character of his former wife, and excepted to the action of the court which bridled him. Had he been governed by the feelings that should have possessed him, nothing could have been more welcome than to be relievéd of the necessity of such an exposure, if there was any to make. The instinct of the court naturally revolted at the idea of placing the children of the divorced wife in the custody of one, father though he be, who, for its own sake, panted to hold a picture before them that would greatly tend to their own degradation. This was not the only or main reason for the action that was had, but it could but contribute to impress other testimony. The appellant raises objection to the action of the court as matter of law. He testifies that he and the mother are Roman Catholics, and desires that the children be raised in that faith, [607] but that Mr. Murray’s family 'are Presbyterians. Section 21 of the chapter of Guardians and Curators (Wagn. Stat. 675) is as follows: “A minor shall not be committed to the guardianship of a person oí religious persuasion different from that of the parents, or of the surviving parent, of the minor, if another suitable person can be procured, unless the minor, being of the proper age, should so choose.” This provision was adopted to secure, so far, the absolute equality before the law of all forms of religious faith, and in view of the practice in some countries of seeking to strengthen the dominant faith by means of the compulsory custody of the young. The court evidently sought to conform its order to the spirit of this section, but still, had any Catholic family, as near and as interested in the welfare of the children as that of Mr. Murray, and suitable otherwise, offered to take the children, it would have been the duty of the court to have committed them to its guardianship. But the record does not show that any Catholic, suitable or otherwise, offered to take the children, and it was not reasonable to expect it of any outside the circle of relative's. Mr. Murray had property and no children. Mrs. Murray was their grandmother; one of the daughters had been partly nurtured by them ; they were mutually attached; no opportunity offered of guardianship in the parents’ faith; and what more just and natural, as well as lawful, than to commit them to this family? The father was given the boys, if he would send them to their only other relative, his sister, to attend school. He declined to receive them upon this condition, and, as the court could not send them there, they, too, were placed under Mr. Murray’s care. The other legal objection to the action of the court was its refusal to entertain the motion for a new trial, and sending it to another judge for hearing. I do not find any substantial difference between the duties of the several judges of the St. Louis Circuit Court, at special term, and those of the Circuit Courts of the State. (See Tilford v. Ramsey, 43 Mo. 410.) The court, at general term, may distribute business among the several judges (Gen. Stat. 1865, p. 889, § 15); but when one enters upon a trial, he is independent of the control of the other judges, except [608] in review^.of bis acts, and bas “tbe .same power at special term t.o vacate ..or .modify its own judgments, decrees, or orders, rendered or made at supb.term., as if'tbe said court were constituted with a.single judge.” (TA § 13.) ■ It was tbe- duty:of tbe judge who.tried tbis. cause to go through with it and entórtain, and himself bear, tbe motion.,. It is one of those matters that peculiarly belong to tbe original case itself. There is large discretionary power in ■ the judge, and tbe law very properly . gives him an opportunity to review bis decisions and correct bis.errors before tbe case .can go to tbe appellate court. -After .the scurrilous and wholly inexcusable .attack upon him in the papers, by tbe appellant, it.is esasy. to appreciate bis motive in ..sending.-.the case for final disposition . to another. judge; -■ but. it. furnished no: legal reason,, and the one who tried tbe pause should, have-beard and-passed upon tbe motion. ■ • • . Uor tbis error, it becomes-, necessary to. reverse • tbe judgment of general term and remand the cause, not necessarily for a -new trial, but with directions-.to the judge.who tried the case-to bear and. decide tbe motion for . a new bearing, Tbe other.-judges concur.